Isn't that kinda weird?

Every once in a while, I find myself talking with someone who just can't believe what I do for work.

Then, often, that same person will then have a very honest conversation with me.

We end up talking about things that they've...

Maybe never really spoken about before.

Was talking with a guy the other day who fit that profile.

He was shocked to hear that I've spent the last several years utterly dedicated to helping other men quit porn.

It just sounded to weird to him.

And yet, barely a couple minutes into the conversation and without any kind of prodding from me whatsoever, he was telling me about how he watches porn sometimes and has struggled with premature ejaculation.

Pretty wild.

Not because it's a weird issue or uncommon.

It's actually extremely common, one of the natural negative consequences of training the brain to "get off quickly" with super-high stimulation.

It's wild because I really don't try to get people to open up...

Rather, it's almost like many people are starving for someone to talk to about this heavy shit that they're carrying but never get to express.

And when they meet someone who's actually safe to talk to...

When they're given the space to express themselves without fear of judgement...

It just comes naturally.

Which ties into the lesson I wanted to share with you in this email.

For most guys, talking with anyone about their struggles with pornography or other compulsive, unhealthy behaviors is something that sounds horrifying. Many think they'd rather take that sh*t to the grave than admit they're struggling. And I understand - there's a masculine pride that doesn't want to be seen in that way. By anyone.

But for guys who can't change that "I'll never talk to anyone" mental program they're running?

And they also can't figure out how to quit on their own?

There are, unfortunately, pretty good odds that they'll actually take the problem to their grave.

And again, I get it.

I went through this myself.

I endured the discomfort of admitting I had a problem, and needed help, then actually reaching out to someone.

And I'm not saying it's easy.

But I am saying it's one of the smartest things I did, and it helped me break through in recovery 5 years ago and never look back.

So if you've been struggling in silence and not sharing it with anybody...

I very much recommend finding some sort of counsellor, consultant, or whoever who can help. And I'm not saying it has to be with me. But having some sort of external support, ideally someone who actually understands the problem you're dealing with and can genuinely give good advice rather than just be a shoulder to cry on, helps a lot.

It did for me.

And if you want my help...

After dedicating years of my career to helping other men quit, I've truly learned how to help other men do it as quickly and effectively as possible. Currently, every single one of the guys I'm working with has been clean since the very first day we started working together. Not to mention previous clients like Mark, who have been clean for more than 4 years...

I'm not taking on more clients for the time being while I work on a big project.

But when you're on my waitlist you'll be the first to know when someone graduates or I open up more spots.