How a 7-figure exec lost his marriage

I've gotten to know a certain type of guy who takes the path less traveled.

The kind of man who doesn't just settle.

Who pushes himself to realize the potential he knows is deep inside him.

But something I think is sad is how often high performers are hyper-focused on work, but not necessarily performing at a high level in the other deeply important parts of life too.

They're cashing big checks, but their kids barely know them.

Or they're present physically, but kinda checked out mentally during family time.

They're on fire in the office, but the fire in their marriage has dimmed to spark where they're sexless for months at a time.

They put on a face that says "I'm good!", but subtly feel dissatisfied with how their lives are going during the hours they aren't working...

As as long as they're feeling productive, they feel "ok enough."

... even if other things they care about are eroding.

I've worked with a lot of these kinds of men who often "hide" in their work.

But you know what I like about working with them?

Once they've truly admitted that there's a problem and they decide they're going to do something about it... they're willing to do the work. Because getting the work done is what they're good at, and high performers don't like settling for band-aids. With a bit of guidance, they're willing to face their demons, slay them, and turn them into fuel...

Guys like a previous client, Alec, who shall remain anonymous but gave me permission to talk about his story.

A true high performer in (almost) every way. Totally jacked. Executive in a major corporation. Rich, obviously. Beautiful kids. But... he'd lost his marriage.

The spark died long ago.

Arguments and tension

became more common than love.

And underneath it was a porn habit that he just wasn't able to control that was dysregulating his emotional state and mental/neurobiochemical health. Making every conversation with his wife more irritating, and fueling the distance between them.

I'm not gonna lie and say it was the sole reason their marriage failed.

But he told me it was certainly a major one.

Then, a couple years after when he was entering into the dating pool anew, something else starting plaguing him. For some reason, for the first time in his life and despite his stellar physical health, he couldn't keep it up in bed.

And it was completely messing with his head.

Not to mention his ability to truly form a deeper connection with a woman.

Long story short...

He reached out to me when he made the "a-ha!" connection between his porn use and his... erectile issues... which until that moment he hadn't known could literally be induced and reinforced by using porn.

And like most high performers I work with...

He applied himself.

Seriously.

Followed every step I gave him.

And while I can't take all the credit because he's truly the type of guy who wins and achieves what he sets his mind out to do... He'd been struggling to quit for more than a year of active effort when we started, and the moment we began working together he quit right from day 1.

To my knowledge he's still clean nearly 3 years later.

A couple months back last time we caught up, he told me point-blank: porn stole years of intimacy he'll never get back... but he's grateful to not be carrying it with him anymore.

He's in a healthy new relationship with a woman who adores him.

Feeling healthier, internally, than he has in a long time.

And overall just enjoying his life as a porn-free man who doesn't do that shyt anymore.

Which is the exact outcome I'll help you achieve too.

But I'm down to my last 2 spots for new clients, and I'm closing my calendar tomorrow night to focus on further advancing my purpose with a huge project.

So if you've been on the fence like Alec was, this is the time to book your consultation.

(And I'll send you 3 powerful bonuses when you do.)

Book here before doors close:

​1on1.devinmcdermott.com​

Devin M.

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P.S.

Remember that, as a gift just for showing up for yourself and having this conversation, I'll be sending you 3 massive bonuses even if working together isn't the right fit for some reason.

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