The secret feminine desire

Recently I've been gaining a much more intimate understanding of certain masculine & feminine dynamics.

Specifically:

The "secret" desire of a feminine woman is to be able to surrender to her own feminine energy, to let go of the control her masculine energy gives her and just be able to flow. To turn down the decision-making, logistical part of her brain and just be. To trust completely in the leadership of a man she deems worthy.

But the thing is...

The only way she can trust you completely if you're leading correctly. And leading correctly within a relationship starts with leading yourself correctly. The reason I'm learning about this dynamic more currently, and didn't learn more about it 4+ years ago, is because I simply wasn't the man who was capable of creating, holding, and nurturing this dynamic.

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I wasn't leading myself well.

My porn habit, poor emotional coping skills, the loops of escapism I was caught in with social media, YouTube, games, netflix, weed, etc... my lack of fitness routines, consequently poor health and lacking physical appearance and stature... the poor posture that comes from a weak body and low confidence... All came together into a picture of a man who looked whole on the surface, but was fractured within.

I wasn't capable of being a good leader back then.

Not even for myself, let alone a deeply feminine woman.

Flash forward and, earlier this morning, my girl was just thanking me for how much she's able to trust me. How much she trusts the way I think, the decisions I make, how mindful I am, how I communicate, how I understand her needs and desires, and how that lets her feel so comfortable and enamored and just open up completely with me.

Which is straight up one of the most ***beautiful***** things I've ever heard**

To be able to make a woman feel that way - wow, what a gift.

Yet the even greater gift is knowing that I was simply not this man several years ago. To be experiencing this dynamic currently... well, it's the culmination of years of hard work to become the kind of man who's capable of leading the way I am. I've become who I wanted to be back then*.* And that's fucking cool.

Her words were simultaneously incredibly reaffirming, and incredibly motivating, for me to continue showing up the way I have been.

Starting with how I show up for myself in my own lifestyle.

Because like I said, a woman can't trust in you completely if you can't trust and aren't leading yourself effectively. It's awesome how much better your relationships start going when you commit to the path of self improvement, and start by removing the #1 anchor from your lifestyle - porn, masturbation, and compulsive sexuality. That one, strong decision puts you on an entirely different trajectory than before.

Then from there, you simply continue layering in other positive changes over time.

Moving further down a trajectory that was shifted by one simple decision.

Until one day, you realize you're a completely different person than you were before. Or, rather, that you've healed the wounds of "old you" and have consciously brought forth a better, stronger, more aligned version of you.

And my job?

My job is to help you do exactly that, but much faster than I was able to.

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